Email Extract from a trading friend:
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On Tue, Apr 19, 2011 at 8:38 PM, XXX > wrote:
Hi ,
I wonder if anybody face the same problems before? If yes, how did you overcome this problem?
Sometimes when I enter a trade, the trade will go the opposite direction and I will take a cut loss. After that, it will continue to advance for a big move. ( thus, i miss out the big move)
But I dont dare to enter, because if i entered right after i cut loss, i might have to face the risk of the price reversing. ( psychology trauma ).
I find that this happens to me alot of time. the question is, how to minimize such occurrences? (very dui one leh.... )
Regards
XXX
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Many friends in our trading community replied to him... this is my reply.
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Hi Shun,
I'm sure we all go thru this. Thru this inevitable process, we also learn more about ourselves, our style of trading.
I also have another similar problem - in different variations:
-Initial view is wrong, entered trade, cut loss - stoned cos didnt reverse trade.
-Initial view is right, but due to "my" sentiments of market, entered a different direction, cut loss - stoned. cannt react.
-many more versions of such psycho battles...
Yest I had another of these. namely Version 2, See attached. This time is reacted.
Then I learnt something abt my character, somehow the mood already tell me something is not right yet i chose to ignore it so many times. I'm sure it will happen again, i hope to find the right psycho to deal with it.
Wishing you well. =D
Huat Ah!-----------
I sincerely hope I will be able to achieve it. Months have passed. My freelancing coaching work is decent and covers my basic bills and essential needs. Emotionally i am feeling more secure and at peace. I am sure it has affected my trading, which is more laid back now. It's a good thing to knw that I dun depend on it.
Some months back I told a few trading friends that I am in my "ebb" now... it's a term we use to describe the tide ebbing and flow. Ebb means (backwards, decline, reclining) and Flow the opposite.
I promised I will make small and steady steps to get back.
Wish me the best!
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19-04-2011-GBPJPY Short then Cut loss, Long n closed!